Have you ever had this thought that you are not good enough to be called an employee in your company? Do you think that you are not as good as your contemporaries? Do you think your schooling is not from a high-fi elite school, so you can’t match the standards of the other students? When a task is assigned to you, do you refuse to do it because you think you are not as advanced as your competitors? If you possess any such thoughts of shame in your mind, then you are definitely a victim of a disease called “inferiority complex.” Wherever you go, you see such low-esteem in many of the people and you are unable to understand why? Let me tell you that inferiority complex is a psychological phenomenon that dwells in the people who are submissive and lack self-confidence. It is a susceptible malady that evokes people to doubt their abilities and thus, feel bad about themselves. It is commonly found at workplaces where there are numerous people with diverse minds and talents and thus, the chances of scaling one another increases. Here are 10 ways by which you can overcome inferiority complex at work:
From a small vendor to a big coffee shop employee to a corporate official, anyone can be an entrepreneur. But then why hundreds of people fail and only a few become giant names? The simple answer to this question is that it takes a lot of passion and courage, first, to take the decision of stepping into the world of new challenges where risks enmesh the limbs of the neophyte and second, to dare to give a shot to the most vulnerable earning option, i.e. entrepreneurship. Success is just a tag that follows the track of excellence and diligence. Being an entrepreneur and that too a successful one is not a layman’s job, one has to burn the candle at both ends to attain the impossible. The biggest business tycoons have emerged from the bog of the unprivileged. For instance, the journey of transformation from a mere school teacher to one of the richest man in the world, Mr. Jack Ma, the owner of the gigantic “Alibaba group,” has displayed the essence of consistent efforts which has lifted him to the apex of the commercial market. There are other names in the queue of moguls like Bill gates, Sergey Brin, Larry Page etc.
Personality is the definition of one’s real self. Values, beliefs, thoughts, perception, attitude, desires, and code of conduct collectively form what is called a personality. There is no holy scripture or any set of rules that govern the personality of a human being. Personality varies from person to person, but there is definitely a lesson of a bunch of traits, emotional stability, and intellectual ability that needs to be learnt by every individual in order to acquire a personality that can be adored by others. There are numerous prolific writers, psychologists, and philosophers who have scribbled their thoughts about personality development in various books. Here are some of the examples of self-help books which requires you to read and experience the real life situations and how you can inculcate the qualities of an appealing personality:
Are you one of those employees who are called wallflower among all? Do you refrain from attending your official parties? Are one of those who make excuses when ordered to give presentations at your office? Do you hesitate in communicating with your authorities? Do you have your lunch in aloof? Do you feel discomfort at your work stead? If yes, then you are anti-social and you are in dire need of overcoming your fear of talking with people. To all my readers, you must know that this era belongs to those who can express themselves and do not believe in hiding themselves behind the curtains. You better understand one thing that your proficiency is your sword, but to make yourself worthy of taking the sword out of the sheath, you have to conquer your diffidence.
Humans and their wishes never end. As a man grows his needs and hunger for accomplishments increase day by day. But man does not realize that he goes astray in the wake of running after those voracious needs. It happens in every individual’s life and it is the utter inadvertent nature of human being that makes him do so. Have you never been caught up in a situation where you have made such an expensive demand for yourself, be it buying a car or becoming the executive head of a renowned firm? Imagine that you have recently joined a company which pays you a meager income and you have made a decision of buying a flat at a stage of life, where your prior installments of washing machine are still being deducted from your bank account. So, will you be able to grab your much awaited dream in such a predicament? This is what you call a tragedy, a juncture of life where your goals and your fate slip out of your hands. Therefore, here is a list of tips, rather questions; that you need to ask yourself when you prepare yourself for the attainment of such unrealistic goals in life.
Have you ever felt that you don’t belong to the place you work currently? Do you feel that it is time for you to stop listening to commands and start preparing yourself to be the boss? Are you enervated of watching yourself glued to your chair for long hours? Does this 9-5 job nag you all the time? Does your decision to be a desk jockey frustrate you? Have you reached a point in life where you just want to quit your vocation? If your answer is yes, then you are definitely looking for a change in your career – a change that will demand nothing else, but for you to embark on a new business venture.
To take up a self-made plan and to execute it requires immense courage. Today is the era of innovation and it is not unusual to find people waffling between their job opportunities and the choice of converting their passion into work by opting for entrepreneurship. You must have seen men taking such financial risks because women are often hesitant in making such precarious decisions. But with the world recognizing the talent of women in various fields of work, women are highly motivated to do something extraordinary. Here are the 10 ways for all the women who wish to transform themselves into successful women entrepreneurs:
Have you ever felt being torn into pieces and the fragments not getting mended by any efforts? Have you been in a situation from which you could not retreat? Do you feel sometimes that you have lost control on yourself and your life? Do you ever think that your life is just futile and you are just good for nothing? If yes, then you have definitely been through the phase of grief and helplessness. Despair, gloominess, despondence, dejection, and isolation are the emotional states that a person finds him/herself when in intense subjugation. Sometimes life gives you an open challenge to curse it as it lays several hurdles on your way to leading a happy life. Life is a combination of sweet and sour moments and you need to live them. You can’t get away from disappointments in life, you have to face them and battle them out. Positivism is the first step towards making a better future conquering all the fears.
Success is a glorious phase of life that is earned with a lot of determination and strong headedness. There is no hard and fast rule as to how one can taste the flavor of success in life, but there are certain parameters on which one weighs the achievements and accomplishments of a person. Consider your ambition as a dart board and you have to ace the test by shooting the arrow at the right point. Your choices, actions, words, and dexterity can only place you on the crest of the waves in life. In simple words, where defeat can trigger the pull in you to become resilient, success makes you tougher than ever before. Success makes you a fighter and not just any other fighter, but the one who never looks back.
Here is a list of 10 things that you can learn from success:
It is said that success is the by-product of determination and hard work. However, fewer are still able to achieve success at workplace. This often happens because these people who are not able to succeed are lacking at something. They are hardly aware that it is their own negative pattern that is sucking up all the opportunity to achieve success. If only they become aware about what is causing failure, it would be easier to eliminate it all. Through this article you will discover 5 ways how negativity hampers work. (more…)
We look up to successful people and just see their achievements. Little do we know that a lot goes on behind the scenes, on the path to success. Take for example, the great scientist Thomas Edison who invented the light bulb. He achieved success because of his positive attitude. In his words, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Looking at him and others who are great achievers in the history of art, science, mathematics, astrophysics and other such domains there is a lot to learn about failures. Through this article you will discover 5 life lessons that failures teach, and go on the path of achieving success. (more…)