To fail is a part and parcel of life. Failing once, twice, or an infinite number of times never makes you a failure, it is the proof that you tried. Not just that, every time your attempts are unsuccessful, you discover yet another way things don’t work. There is no point pondering over what went wrong but to learn from it. So, never fear taking risks, let loose, and go for it. If today is not your day, don’t miss out on a successful lifetime that awaits you.
Below are some tips which will help you let go off past failures to achieve your future success.
1. You Should Be Keen to Accept the Situation as It Is
The foremost thing which is needed is that you should inculcate within yourself the willingness to accept. For moving on, the initial thing which is needed is the awareness of the fact that you had tried, but you weren’t able to succeed. The faster you will make this fact get into your heads, the faster you will move away from the poignant doom loop which you are trapped in and which holds you back from moving ahead. You can’t go back in time and change your past, just think about your brighter future, and take steps towards it.
2. You Should for Eternity Have Confidence and Trust in Yourself
Self-belief is the most imperative thing which one has to have within him for moving on. You must be firm in your conviction that you are competent of doing the work. You know how to do the work and you will definitely do it likewise. If your belief in yourself is firm, then no external force can impede you from attaining your goal.
3. Set New Goals and Objectives
Forget about the goals which you were not able to achieve. Now set new goals, new objectives and make a new start. Do not keep on wandering the reasons of your past failures. If you keep doing so, you will end being nowhere. Rather, stand up, think of new ways and move ahead with full confidence for achieving your aim.
4. Learn from Your Previous Mistakes
While making a new start you should always keep in mind the mistakes that had happened in the previous time. So that, those mistakes can be rectified this time and this time you will definitely succeed in achieving you aim. Just don’t diverge yourself from your goal.
5. You Should Have a Firm Focus
You aim should be one and that to clear in your mind. You should give your best and everything you have for achieving that aim. It is better to concentrate on one thing rather than trying to sail in two boats at a time. Stay on one of them only, that too with full confidence and firm focus, success will surely come to you.
If you follow these tips, you will surely succeed in life, by forgetting the failures and just enjoying the victory you have achieved. Just stay firm and confident, then no one holds within it so much power so as to deter you from achieving your ultimate aim and staying happy in life.
Suicide as an easy way of running away from life has made its place in the modern society to a very large extent. All the teenagers whether a boy or a girl, be it of any age shows higher chances of committing suicide. At this stage, the child goes through many changes in his life. These changes are both mental and physical. So, some children are unable to deal with it in an efficient way and hence shows a greater tendency of committing suicide. It is the responsibility of the parents to be aware at all stages and acts as a friend for these children. Further, if they feel the chances of any of such kind of thing to occur, they should suggest various ways about ‘taking their children out of the excavate in which they are slowly falling by budding slow poison in their minds’.
There are quite a lot of ways or symptoms through which the parents and the close friends group can find out what’s going on in the mind on the child, and then they can guide him in a more effective manner. Some of the symptoms which depicts such tendencies in the teenagers are as given below:
1. Social Cut Off from The Society
These children try and separate themselves from the society, friends and family members. They prefer staying alone. Some also start having difficulty in mingling themselves up with the other people of their age groups. They draw a line of separation between them and the rest of the world. Such type of things as and when realized should be tried to be solved out at a stage which is the earliest.
2. If the Child Has Started Over Reacting at Small-Small Things
It may happen that the child who is very joyful and of a calm nature, suddenly doesn’t find anything good or pleasing in his surroundings. The parents have also felt change in his behavior. He shouts at the very nominal things and talks. If such feeling appears to be making its place in the mind of the child, it should be tried and removed at the earliest possible moment by discussing it with him.
3. If He Has Started Talking About Such Things
If the child talks about suicide or death, or make such drawings, or any of his activities depicts such behavior or he has tried and ran away from home or he has written something which gives such hints, it should not be ignored. Parents should always take care that the thoughts which are developing in the mind of their child are not bad or wrong in any manner. If any of the above stated things is noticed by the parents they should sit and explain their child the consequences of it, and the solution to deal with their problem.
4. If the Child Appears to Be Distracted Every Time
If one feels that the child has gone in silence mode or is feeling distracted every time or feels bored every moment, or his grades in the school or college is affected to a great extent then one should talk to him, and the reason behind it should be found out. It should not be ignored at any cost. Your ignorance may also lead you to bear serious consequences at a later stage.
5. Donating Away All His Valuable Possessions
When the child has given away all of his most valuable things and the things which he used to love the most, it should be understood that something wrong is going to happen and before it only you should grab a chance, talk to your child and save this wrong from happening.
The children should be made well understood by their parents that to commit suicide is not an answer to any of the problem in life, rather it is a step towards not completing your responsibilities in fully. You are just running away from it as if you do want to or can’t do it. Child, you have got one life, that too of a not very long-time span, you should enjoy it to your full extent, rather don’t think about ideas of committing such blunders in life. Such thoughts should be permanently deleted from your memory.